How to Do the Spider Sex Position

The Spider is a unique and playful sex position that offers face-to-face intimacy, deep connection, and the freedom to control rhythm and depth together. It’s perfect for couples who want to try something new while staying close and engaged.

How to Do It

1. Sit facing each other.Both partners sit on a bed or soft surface, facing one another, with knees bent and feet flat on the bed.

2. Support yourselves with your arms.Lean back slightly and rest your weight on your hands, placed behind you for stability.

3. Move together.The receiving partner scoots forward and lowers themselves onto the penetrating partner’s penis or toy. The receiver’s hips will be between the giver’s spread legs, knees bent, and feet outside the giver’s hips.

4. Rock and connect.Rock back and forth together, using your legs and arms for balance and movement. Adjust your angle and pace for comfort and pleasure.

Tips for Maximum Enjoyment

• Keep your backs supported with pillows if needed.
• Maintain eye contact and use your hands to touch, caress, or hold each other.
• Try pulling each other closer for deeper penetration or sitting up straighter for a new angle.
• Switch roles or experiment with who leads the movement for variety.

Why You’ll Love It

• Promotes face-to-face intimacy and connection.
• Allows both partners to control rhythm and depth.
• Great for slow, sensual sex or playful experimentation.
• Easily adapted for different body types and flexibility levels.

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