How to Do the Reverse Cowgirl Sex Position
The Reverse Cowgirl is a classic sex position that gives the receiving partner control and offers a whole new perspective for both. It’s a favorite for visual excitement, self-paced pleasure, and is accessible for most body types.
How to Do It
- The giving partner lies down.
The penetrating partner lies flat on their back on a comfortable surface, legs together and straight.
- The receiving partner mounts facing away.
The receiver straddles the giver’s hips, facing away from them, and lowers themselves onto the penis, strap-on, or toy.
- Move and explore.
The receiver controls the movement, speed, and depth. They can bounce up and down, grind back and forth, or move in circles-whatever feels best.
- Try variations.
- Lean forward and support yourself with your hands for a different angle and deeper penetration.
- Lean back to emphasize G-spot or prostate stimulation and add a visual element for your partner.
- Try the position on a chair or the edge of a bed for a new twist.
Tips for Maximum Enjoyment
- Use plenty of lube for smooth movement and comfort.
- The partner on the bottom can use their hands to help lift or guide the receiver.
- Add clitoral or perineal stimulation for extra pleasure-this position leaves your hands free.
- Communicate about what feels good and adjust your angle or pace as needed.
- Try a bullet vibe or other toy for blended orgasms.
Why You'll Love It
- The receiver is in total control of rhythm, depth, and angle, allowing them to find what feels best for their body.
- Offers a visually stimulating view for the giving partner, especially of the receiver’s back and hips.
- Great for those who feel shy about eye contact or want to focus on sensation rather than performance.
- Allows for deep penetration and can enhance G-spot or prostate stimulation depending on how you angle your hips.
- Adaptable for different bodies, genders, and can be done with a penis, strap-on, or dildo, making it inclusive for many couples.
Reverse Cowgirl is a versatile,