The Reverse Cowgirl is a classic sex position that gives the receiving partner control and offers a whole new perspective for both. It’s a favorite for visual excitement, self-paced pleasure, and is accessible for most body types.

How to Do It

1. The giving partner lies down.The penetrating partner lies flat on their back on a comfortable surface, legs together and straight.

2. The receiving partner mounts facing away.The receiver straddles the giver’s hips, facing away from them, and lowers themselves onto the penis, strap-on, or toy.

3. Move and explore.The receiver controls the movement, speed, and depth. They can bounce up and down, grind back and forth, or move in circles-whatever feels best.

4. Try variations.

   • Lean forward and support yourself with your hands for a different angle and deeper penetration.
   • Lean back to emphasize G-spot or prostate stimulation and add a visual element for your partner.
   • Try the position on a chair or the edge of a bed for a new twist.

Tips for Maximum Enjoyment

• Use plenty of lube for smooth movement and comfort.
• The partner on the bottom can use their hands to help lift or guide the receiver.
• Add clitoral or perineal stimulation for extra pleasure-this position leaves your hands free.
• Communicate about what feels good and adjust your angle or pace as needed.
• Try a bullet vibe or other toy for blended orgasms.

Why You’ll Love It

• The receiver is in total control of rhythm, depth, and angle, allowing them to find what feels best for their body.
• Offers a visually stimulating view for the giving partner, especially of the receiver’s back and hips.
• Great for those who feel shy about eye contact or want to focus on sensation rather than performance.
• Allows for deep penetration and can enhance G-spot or prostate stimulation depending on how you angle your hips.
• Adaptable for different bodies, genders, and can be done with a penis, strap-on, or dildo, making it inclusive for many couples.

Reverse Cowgirl is a versatile,