How to Do the Butterfly Sex Position

The Butterfly sex position is a classic for those seeking deep penetration and effortless access. It’s especially great for edge-of-the-bed play and allows for plenty of eye contact and sensual touch.

How to Do It

  1. Lie on your back at the edge of the bed.The receiving partner lies on their back with their hips at the very edge of the bed, legs bent or extended as comfortable.

  2. The giving partner stands or kneels.The penetrating partner stands or kneels between the receiver’s legs, holding their hips or thighs for support.

  3. Adjust for comfort and rhythm.The receiver can rest their legs on the giver’s shoulders or wrap them around their waist. The giver controls the depth and pace, adjusting as needed.

Tips for Maximum Enjoyment

  • Use pillows under the hips for extra lift and comfort.
  • Try different angles by adjusting leg placement.
  • Maintain eye contact and touch for intimacy.
  • Use plenty of lube for smooth movement.

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